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Motivation and Positive Thinking

Being Happy - Andrew Matthews


This might sound a bit weird for some of you, but ever since I was 10, I always like to read a self-help book. The first book I pick up was “Being Happy” by Andrew Matthews. I didn’t know it was called self-help book, actually I bought it because of the comic character on its cover.

It wasn’t the only book from Andrew that I bought, about one or two years later I bought his second book, “Making Friends“, and few years later I bought “Follow Your Heart” when I was in the Philippines.

Through the years, the list of self-help / motivation books I read keeps increasing, some that I can remember includes “7 Habits of Highly Effective People“, “Rich Dad Poor Dad” series, “The Secret“.

Honestly, I’m not a full positive thinker as I supposed to after reading these books. Probably because of my ‘realist’ nature.

However, if I started to connecting the dots (Steve Job isn’t the only one who can do that), I can see that these books indeed shaped the way I’m thinking now.

The Differences

1. I always think that I will always get what I want (sooner or later)

This is my habit, I always think that I will always get what I want, be it now or later, but they’re coming my way. So strong this habit, on the year 2009-2010 when some of the things that I wanted didn’t happen, I thought someone must’ve cursed me. *I never able to prove it.

The self-help guru usually describe this as focusing your mind to the things you wanted, and you’ll get it, or the law of attraction, or what have you.

I just want to say that, it WORKS!

Probably not always as quick as we want to, but if we’re patient, most of the things that we wanted so much will actually come our way.

2. I write my goals

Since I was in college I write my to do list, and some of the ideas, and goals I have in a little notebook. Organizing tasks and thoughts are some of the things that most self-help guru will suggest us to do.

I still write my goals until now. Not all of my goals come true, but surprisingly a good number of them do (read below).

3. I look like I don’t have any problem

This is a bit subjective, but I have a number of people who told me that I never look worried. People who personally knows me will probably say that I can be exactly the opposite, but most of the time, yes I can look very easy-go-lucky because whatever problem I’m facing, I always thought that I’ll find the solution (difference #1).

The Shocking Truth

1. The note on 2008

In early January 2008, I wrote a sentence in my notebook that I never knew would foretell the change that will affect the rest of my life. I wrote:

“This year I will work in a company that I like doing what I love.”

I wrote it down, but then I forgot about it. Because on late February 2008, I was accepted in a new job and I need to do some training out of city, and few months later I was placed in Bali.

Before the year end I saw my notebook again, and when I saw that sentence I was shocked.

It came true.

2. The grades on first semester

Starting 2010 I started studying Master degree in Boston.

As always with my habit, I wrote that I will get straight ‘A’ for all of my course on the first semester.

However, the road turns out to be not easy, having no proper bachelor background in the field that I’m studying puts me in a disadvantage.

But guess what, at the end of the semester I got straight ‘A’s and when I saw the goal that I wrote, I almost couldn’t believe it.

So what Djitz? Are you going to be one of those motivator?

How exactly good things keep coming to happy people, and bad things keep coming to unfortunate people, I think no one will ever can understand it.

I can assure you that happy people don’t always get the good stuff, but they always think the good stuff, so despite some bad things that might come, there will be more good things coming. The opposite is also true for the unfortunate people who focus on the bad things.

We don’t need to understand everything to make use of it. A lot of thing that we use everyday work without our understanding, but they just work.

I probably can be a motivator someday, but for now, I think I’m so selfish if I don’t share this things to anyone. So, here you go, I shared my experiences, and I will post some of the books that I think really helped me to where I am today.

I hope they will help you too (if they haven’t already). 😀

4 thoughts on “Motivation and Positive Thinking”

  1. andika says:

    -I will get straight ‘A’ –


    let me leave my goals here 🙂

    1. Trijito Santoso says:

      Awesome goal! Will be waiting for the good news. 😀

  2. sweetseraph says:

    hey mister trijito santoso! 🙂

    i’ve been eyeing this website for a while now, i’m really thankful that i found this. i noticed that you are or were a medtech… same here(got my license last year). i was wondering, how did you make your decision to change your field of work to computer science? i’m on the verge of shifting careers as well… but i don’t know where to start. i love medtech but i feel that there’s something off about it. feels like i want to try something new..

    btw your site is really inspiring. and i think that you are the best person to ask about this since you know about being a medtech as well.

    i didn’t know else where to send you my message. i hope you have time to read this and comment on this soon!

    god bless. 🙂

    -sweetseraph from the philippines

    1. Trijito Santoso says:

      Thanks for visiting my blog and the kind words, I hope you find my articles useful. 🙂
      Shifting career is never an easy choice, and the final decision can be affected by several factors, such as family, age, financial situation, and future plans.
      In my case, I’ve always been passionate about computer even since I’m taking medtech school, so shifting to CS is actually just simply following my passion.

      One more thing that is very important before shifting career is a backup plan. It’s what would we do if the career we choose doesn’t turn out well (not so good future, we lose interest on it, we’re not so good at it, etc)? Can we go back to our first career? How much opportunities we lost? Is it worth it?

      For me, my decision to shift from medical career turns out to be one of the best decision I ever made, I simplifies my future goal, and I enjoy every day of my life at work. But, I always believe that the rigorous training that I had from medtech has major impact in shaping what I am now. 🙂


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